We're all guilty of something. One thing I am guilty of, and I think many others may agree this speaks true for them as well, is taking life for granted. Specifically those who are by our sides daily. For me, these people include my family and friends. Unfortunately, I think it is just human nature to become comfortable with their presence in our lives, that we often forget to say 'thank you' or show our appreciation for what they do for us.
This week in particular I have stepped back and looked at the wonderful friendships I have gained, the friendships I am forming, the friends who have stuck by my side for years, and reflected on those friendships that have diminished.
It has become more apparent that some of my old friends have different priorities in life which have an effect on our friendship. I remember my mom telling me about the time in my life where friends would start moving in different directions, and not to be surprised. Well, the time has come, and I am still surprised by the abrupt changes there seems to be. I am still thankful for the friendship I was able to have with these particular people, however, am sad to see it go and sad that it will never be the same bond.
But those who have stuck by my side, and the ones who I consider my closest friends, are amazing. Usually I am the one offering up advice for others, sharing my personal experiences. I am naturally a listener and someone who wants to help. So, I often neglect my own feelings and do not share them to get advice in return. This week I sought that out, and realized I have very supportive people to talk to. It was nice to get the reassurance and advice. It made me feel less lost and I was able to get back on track. It is that act of friendship that makes it so valuable. I can't imagine not having friends who truly care about you.
It sounds cliche' saying that I don't know where I would be without my friends, but I do feel this way. Life would be so dull without them. Having people to share life's moments with is priceless, and should not be taken for granted. I look forward to continuing to make new friends, and work on the friendships from the past. We can all learn from our friends, it's just up to us to appreciate those friendships and advice, and then return the favor. Thank you to all of those who are there for me. I may not always directly say it or show it, but I truly appreciate that you are in my life. You make life's ups and downs more bearable by just being there.
"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends whom we choose." - Tehyi Hsieh
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